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The lying about using, me throwing him out etc. TMI sorry! But he never used to really be into porn before his addiction began. I dont think it would make you more likely to cheat, but I know it doesnt make you think right and that it makes you selfish as hell as you know. Him saying other women are attractive etc is deceitful in itself to be honest as he is planting the seed.
Thank you. He still claims that drugs just make you chat rubbish so no logical thought goes into it. I know so true, drugs makes them SO selfish - like no matter what I say to my BF when hes taken drugs or drank, he doesnt care, and that feeling is awful isnt it. So in a way it makes it more odd! Our marriage has turned toxic from drugs, there was never any issues before that. You still know your married.
I said well what would you be hoping to get out of telling someone that they were attractive and he said they might say I am too bevause I feel low in myself. Would this again be part of the addiction if this was the case? I mean if he believed that the drugs were working for him. I see, did the girl contact you to tell you? Its completely unacceptable. I cant stand it when they make out its us, it so selfish it makes you just want to give up doesn't it. Oh bless you, what an awful feeling that must be - if he went off with someone who accepted that then I think that would be time to let go, he would learn in the long run as his life would be ruined entirely, he'd lose everything.
If he cheats, he would know what he was doing, he would know it was wrong Yes it makes you horny on it, ive heard but tbh you cant get a hard on usually on it so I wouldnt worry. I am going to a support group on a monday evening you should see locally what they offer and see if this helps you understand etc. I think he sees me like a nag! Maybe other girls are a nice distraction from having to look at his behaviour. He said it would as you say only sink in after he came off drugs what the hell has he done!
I never have in 17 years had reason to mistrust him, apart from now. I check his phone etc without me knowing and the only person he ever searches for is me. So god knows! I messaged her to ask her if he had said anything to her, when I found him he was slumped against the bar in a state. He was really pissed as well as having had 2g.
It was only him and her in there. So I thought it was odd. She said the attractive thing was blown out of context, it was just said in passing not in a pervy way but said he made her feel uncomfortable as he was just staring at her weird off his face.
As only them two in the bar! But she did say she hates men they are all the same. So god knows, it all drives me mad!
I am getting divorced, because he wants to and because I am worried for my children. The funny thing is, I thought he was having an affair. I guess he wad, with Mistress Charlie! It breaks my heart but I think I have to just walk away now. I have dated other guys lately and was shocked at how kind and generous they were! It was like a different life! But they are never going to be him, the one that I married not the gibbering coke addict. He now says we should learn to trust each other again and be friends by seeing more of each other.
I think this would be a bad idea although my heart so wants to be with him. I wish I could just fully let go and move on. Please abide by our forum guidlines. This forum uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.
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