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Are you one of the needy women that men avoid? A girlfriend once told me in a very exhausted and emotional manner, that there were plenty of men who pursued her yet they were all quick to disappear. In a nutshell, a needy woman is someone who will do everything and anything to please a man. And because she gives everything, she requires the man to reciprocate it. Men are happy to receive. The more they can get away with, the better.
Neediness is also a reflection of your self-esteem and self-confidence, security, self-respect and overall happiness. I spent the last couple of months studying personality types and how each personality type behave in a relationship. I discovered that while neediness can be attributed to attachment disorder, low self-esteem caused by many different factorsand a lack of emotional balance this one deserves an entire blog post of its ownyour personality type is actually a good identifier if you have a tendency to be needy. Neediness is the result of your own unmet needs. Unless these needs are met, you are likely to continue to display needy behaviors.
Here are the fifty-one traits of needy women. If you nod to at least five of these, then you belong to the needy quadrant. Let this be your guide in self-reflecting and self-assessing. Your identity is dependent on your relationship. Is your identity always defined by being in a relationship? Your happiness is a reflection of your relationships. Your self-confidence is a reflection of your suitors, admirers, or boyfriends. You feel beautiful when you are admired.
You feel special when you are pursued. You get easily jealous. Even if your boyfriend is just checking out the Porsche across the street, you freak out, accusing him of ogling other girls. There are six reasons why men pull away in early stages of dating, but there are only two possible responses from you — you shrug it off, adopt a wait-and-see attitude and try to be happy even without him around, or you get upset, bombard him with text messages and phone calls, and unable to function like normal.
You need a man to validate your worth. You always have fear of losing him. You give up your routine when you were single in order to accommodate him. You give up your independence. You give up your identity. You tolerate disrespect. You regularly see him on short notice or when it is convenient for him. You often hang out in his place, and would run to his side with a snap of a finger. You cook an elaborate meal on your first, or even second, date.
You want to stay in touch all the time. You call and text him several times a day, you leave long messages on his machine, you respond to his s in less than 2 seconds. You over analyze your relationship. You have no life of your own. Your whole world evolves around him. You need nonstop body contact —holding hands, kissing and hugging even in public. You are controlling.
You control who he can mingle with. You require him to introduce you as his girlfriend to everyone all the time.
You constantly need reassurance. You stop being the boss of yourself, he becomes your boss. You give away any kind of power you have in the relationship, you become his subordinate, which to power imbalance. You fear rejectionso you give up your identity in order to be the woman you think he will love and cherish. You badly need this relationshipso you are willing to bow, stretch and bend backward in order to please him.
You give everything early in the relationshipwithout leaving anything for yourself, and hoping to negotiate reciprocity later. You forget your standardsor you have no standards at all. You leave an unhappy relationship, only to end up in another unhappy relationship. If a man breaks up with you because of your neediness, you do everything to chase him and win him back. But you only come off as desperate, which drives the man even further. You invest too much or exert effort too early in a new relationshipwhich cuts the chase.
You are willing to sacrifice your dignity over having a relationship with him. You give up your career in order to support him in achieving his dreams. But once he dumps you, you end up penniless. You are emotionally dependent on him. You rely heavily on him, which eventually becomes a burden to him. He needs an equal partner who can contribute to the relationship. His mood becomes your mood. You want to change who he is. This is the opposite of the needy woman who drops her identity on a whim, because in this case, you want to change him to suit your need.
You are a social media PDA. You post lots of photos of the two of you in your Facebook, Twitter and Instagram s. Your Facebook friends are already fed up with your overly dramatic statuses of how much he loves you or you love him, and how blessed you are to have him.
In the contrary, he hardly posts anything in his social media about you. You are too nice. If he calls you to pick him up at the airport at 4 am, you jump on your bed to do so. If he has a cough, you spend three hours making a medicinal tea for him.
If he wants to renovate his apartment, you bend backward to organize a team of workers at a discounted rate—all in the name of pleasing him. You try too hard to become close to his mom and dad, and his siblings too.
You do everything to gain their approval too soon. You become besties with his friends too soon. You bake cookies for him and his friends. It frightens men. You compete with his ex, or with any woman in his life whom you consider a threat to your relationship with him. Once you compete with another woman, you lower your value.
You initiate that serious talk early in dating. Are we going to be girlfriend and boyfriend? You do have the power to draw men to you, you only need to nurture that power.
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51 Traits of Needy Women That Turn Men Off